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Feminist texts written by women of color

mylifeasafeminista:

This list is still a work in progress, but I really wanted to get it posted.  I have either read parts of/all of the texts below or they have been recommended to me.  Please reblog and add your own suggestions to the list.  Each time someone adds something new, I’ll go back to this original post and make sure to include them.  Thanks and enjoy!

Books

  • Women, Race, and Class by Angela Davis
  • Women Culture and Politics by Angela Davis
  • Black Feminist Thought by Patricia Hill Collins
  • Borderlands/La frontera: The New Mestiza by Gloria Anzaldua
  • Aint I a Woman: Black Women and Feminism by bell hooks
  • Feminism is for Everybody by bell hooks
  • Feminist Theory from Margin to Center by bell hooks
  • Sister Outsider by Audre Lorde
  • Feminism without Borders: Decolonizing Theory, Practicing Solidarity by Chandra Talpade Mohanty
  • Medicine Stories by Aurora Levins Morales
  • Reimagining Equality: Stories of Gender, Race, and Finding Home by Anita Hill
  • Killing the Black Body: Race, Reproduction, and the Meaning of Liberty by Jessica Yee
  • Conquest: Sexual Violence and American Indian Genocide by Andrea Smith

Anthologies

  • Companeras: Latina Lesbians by Juanita Ramos and the Lesbian History Project
  • Colonize This! Young Women of Color on Today’s Feminism edited by Daisy Hernandez
  • This Bridge Called My Back edited by Cherríe Moraga and Gloria Anzaldúa
  • this bridge we call home: radical visions for transformation edited by Gloria Anzaldúa and AnaLouise Keating
  • Making Face, Making Soul/Haciendo Caras: Creative and Critical Perspectives by Feminists of Color edited by Gloria Anzaldúa
  • Women Writing Resistance: Essays from Latin America and the Caribbean edited by Jennifer Browdy de Hernandez
  • Unequal Sisters edited by Ellen DuBois and Vicki Ruiz
  • The Color of Violence: The Incite! Anthology

Essays

  • “Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence” by Adrienne Rich
  • “Mapping the Margins: Intersectionality, Identity Politics, and Violence Against Women of Color.” by Kimberle Crenshaw
  • The Combahee River Collective Statement

Other authors and poets you should know

  • Maya Angelou
  • Toni Morrison
  • Alice Walker
  • Nawaal El Sadaawi
  • Mary Crow Dog
  • Zora Neale Hurston
  • Arundhati Roy
  • Zadie Smith
  • Dorothy Roberts
  • Nikki Giovanni (submitted by my bff maskofmaterials)
  • Lucille Clifton (submitted by my bff maskofmaterials)

(via glamaphonic)

Finish the sentence: “There have been 16 feature films with Superman or Batman but zero Wonder Woman movies and the main reason is…

The LA Times Hero Complex reported tweeted this. The main reason is….? (via georgethecat)

Good fucking question.

(via ironmanned)

(via glamaphonic)

from “Why We Have A Body” by Claire Chafee

MARY: That reminds me why I called you up. Last night I had another in my series of Feminist Nightmares.

LILI: Like the one where you’re in a big circle and you have to come to an unanimous decision?

MARY: Right right… only in this dream we were fishing, Lili. The two of us. We were back in Minnesota. We had cut a hole in the ice and made a fire right there to stay warm. On the ice. And we were fishing.

All of a sudden you caught something big. It felt really big. You reeled it in. It was Virginia Woolf. And she was angry, Lili… She was furious. She told you to throw her back in and you said are you sure? and she said, “yes” so you did. And we just sat there and looked up at the stars… the monogamous stars… until I felt a tug, a tiny tug,

…it felt like I had caught something big. And so I reeled it in… And it was… you gotta believe me here, it was Ophelia. In the dream I caught Ophelia. And she was nicer about it but still, she said to throw her back, and I said, “are you sure?” and she just said: “good night… good night good night good night” and started singing. And so I threw her back. We could hear her singing as she sank back under. And we both thought, this is some motherfucking river here we picked.

It really creeped us out. So we turned to the fire to stay warm, but pretty soon we heard something pulling my pole across the ice, so I picked it up and reeled it in and out of the ice came this bright red blob. It was a heart, Lili. Joan of Arc’s… and it was frozen solid.

I held it in my hand until it got warm and started beating again. It got all red and then it spoke. It spoke to me and what it said was really simple.

It told us “fish somewhere else.”

To the girls who actually know comic book characters

roxanneritchi:

diktynna | fuckyeahthisperson:

[.gif of Snape applauding with the caption “Snape approves”; removed by @roxanneritchi for accessibility]

Yeah, but we all still think you’re a dick?  Because you’re that person who thinks that a woman in a superhero t-shirt is somehow a ‘slut’ (the most realistic leap of logic I’ve ever witnessed) until it’s proven that she can tell you that Superman’s real name is Clark Kent? (And don’t ‘aha! his real name is Kal-El!’ me because motherfucker I will win that argument.)  A woman could be wearing a superhero shirt for a variety of reasons unrelated to her knowledge of comic book mythos (it was a gift, she liked the movie, she doesn’t feel like doing laundry and her sister’s clothes fit her fine, she likes the logo, she wants to impress a cute person) but none of those reasons is reason enough for your misogynistic and hostile attitude.

And let’s step back, it’s great that you’re ~approving of girls who “actually know comic book characters”, but your attitude is one of the major reasons girls avoid comics.  It’s not fun being treated like you’re a poser until proven otherwise.  It’s not fun having to deal with people assuming you know less than them, or that you couldn’t possibly be earnestly invested in Jaime Reyes’ family life, or that you probably only read indie comics.  You make being a girl geek an unpleasant experience.

The other day I was in the comic book store and a customer approached the guy working behind the counter and asked “How do you get girls in here?”  In the store at the time was my best friend Sadie (who works there) her (lady) cousin, the dickwad asking the question, another store worker (who he was addressing) and myself.  That shit is not fun.  Having your every geek encounter questioned because of your gender identity is not fun.  He found the only other man in the room and made three women feel unimportant and like some kind of comic book store unicorn.  In his mind there was no reason why women should be in the store if not for the kindly guidance of a dude.  

That’s what you’re doing.  When you assume that women who are wearing comic book shirts are only doing so for male attention you’re repulsing actual lady geeks who you supposedly ‘approve of.’  So sit the fuck down.

The last thing I would ever want is this dude’s approval. 

(via formerlyroxy)

Feminism, Cis Women & Fuck Yourself

autumn-and-eve:

Most every feminist on Tumblr is a white cis woman, so they have never experienced erasure within the feminist community, because feminism has always been about white cis women. Right now, I am going to address the erasure I face as a trans woman in the feminist community in the form of a list of points you should follow to not be a shitty person.

  1. Abortion is not about a woman’s right to choose. It is about a person’s right to choose. Recently, with the “Let Women Die” bill (thank you cis feminists for branding it as that!) there has been even more talk of abortion. And a proportionate rise in the amount of cisnormativity. Trans men and non-binary identified people get pregnant, can’t get abortions, and die just like women do. When you perpetuate cisnormative language, you continue to erase these people.
  2. Equating a woman with a vagina is not good for a multitude of reasons; I’m speaking of posts where the writer will talk about “vagina power” or shit like that. It’s pointless and all you’re doing is further alienating me from the feminist movement, which coincidentally has alienated us trans women since the [non]-issue of being transgender came up in feminist circles.
  3. Realize intersectionality in general. 90% of Tumblr feminists are really privileged women (and I would say that they are practically all white and cis). You call yourself a third-wave feminist, but do you know what that even means? The third-wave came about when people started to realize that the “Universal Female Identity” complex of the second wave didn’t work, because that “Universal Female Identity” was really the “White, Cis Female Identity”. You can’t just call yourself a third-wave feminist and be done with it, you have to actually show that you are of the third-wave.

(via glamaphonic)

Mississippi Personhood- Amendment 26

thesassysociologist:

I live in Mississippi. Mississippi has a personhood amendment up for vote in the next election. What scares me is that I think Mississippi might actually be backwards enough to vote yes on this amendment.

Mississippi is already one of the hardest states in which to obtain an abortion, the amendment would not only end abortion but lead to a prohibition of emergency contraception in rape and incest cases, limit medical treatment for miscarriages, tubal pregnancies and infertility treatments, as well as essentially make all forms of birth control illegal (I got pregnant with my first daughter when I was on the pill, if I had miscarried instead of carrying her to term, I could be found at fault for being on birth control pills and “causing” the miscarriage, even though I did not even know I was pregnant at the time).

There is already a teenage mom in prison in Mississippi because she was found guilty of “killing” her unborn child because she allegedly used cocaine while pregnant. What proof beyond a reasonable doubt is there that cocaine use was the cause of death in the unborn child? What did the autopsy report? It was inconclusive, yet there she sits 15 years old and instead of treating her for addiction and giving her the proper education, medical, and psychological care, she sits in a cell.

If this amendment passes, the next person in jail could be the woman who was known not to want children, yet who got pregnant and a few months into the pregnancy fainted and accidentally fell down a flight of stairs resulting in the death of the fetus. Now she goes on trial for murder because she can not prove she did not do it on purpose because she had told people in the past that she never wanted kids, and it just seems like “too much of a coincidence” that she fell down the stairs and lost the pregnancy.

What about the pregnant woman with a fetus that has birth defects that will ultimately lead to the death either in utero or shortly after birth will also have to carry her child to term only to watch it die before her own eyes. The emotional burden and psychological trauma that would be intentionally inflicted  on the woman who would have chosen not to carry the child to term, had she had the choice is too much to even think about.

Is this really the world we want our kids to grow up in, what happens when it is our daughter, sister, or wife who is raped? What happens to the 12 year old who gets pregnant by her sexual abuser? The reluctant mother to be who accidentally falls down the stairs? The excited mom to be who finds out she has a malformed fetus but has to endure a full term pregnancy knowing she will not give birth to a living child.

What about the women who face infection, death, or other health issues if a pregnancy is carried to term? And what becomes of the child born into poverty, abuse, malnutrition, violence, and has little to no access to medical care?

 We have to keep fighting to defend our right to make personal, private medical decisions without interference from politicians and the courts, to prevent one religious viewpoints from becoming the laws of the land and to ensure that women can access basic health care, including birth control, fertility services,  emergency contraception, and abortion.

No matter what your personal view on abortion is, this bill limits the rights of people and pushes a religious agenda onto others who may not hold the same beliefs. Think of it in these terms, how would you feel about a religion who felt that hair was alive, and that cutting hair was a sin and immoral. These people propose an amendment that declares hair a person and states that all forms of hair removal be outlawed?

Even shaving hair for the purpose of hygiene before a required medical procedure is not allowed under any circumstances which makes the risk of infection from the medical procedure go up by a significant percent, but the life and health of the person requiring the procedure is not as important as making sure the hair is not harmed.

Seem absurd? It is essentially the same law as personhood, it is declaring hair  alive and therefore you must not get rid of it or keep it from growing. You have to deal with it until it falls out on its own even though you don’t believe removing hair is immoral.  The only major difference is that when hair falls out, it does not require food, clothing, education, medical care, financial support, etc.

Mississippi 'Personhood' Law Could Ban Abortions And Birth Control

thisgingersnapsback:

Abortion-rights advocates say they worry that the language of the initiative is so broad and vague that its effects could go far beyond outlawing abortion. The measure could be interpreted to outlaw the birth control pill, for instance, because the pill can sometimes prevent the implantation of a fertilized egg. They also say the measure could outlaw in vitro fertilization, stem cell research and emergency contraception for rape victims, as well as discourage doctors from performing a lifesaving miscarriage treatment when a woman is suffering from potentially-fatal pregnancy complications.

I just need to stop reading the news today.

pheonee:

“Boy, these conservatives are really something, aren’t they? They’re all in favour of the unborn. They will do anything for the unborn. But once you’re born, you’re on your own. Pro-life conservatives are obsessed with the fetus from conception to nine months. After that, they don’t want to know anything about you. No nothing. No neonatal care, no day care, no head start, no school lunch, no food stamps, no welfare, no nothing. If you’re preborn, you’re fine; if you’re preschool, you’re fucked. Conservatives don’t give a shit about you until you reach “military age”. Then they think you are just fine. Just what they’ve been looking for. Conservatives want live babies so they can raise them to be dead soldiers. Pro-life…pro-life…these people aren’t pro-life, they’re killing doctors! What kind of pro-life is that? What, they’ll do anything to save a fetus but if it grows up to be a doctor they just might have to kill it? They’re not pro-life. You know what they are? They’re anti-woman. Simple as it gets, anti-woman. They don’t like them. They don’t like women. They believe a woman’s primary role is to function as a broodmare for the state.”

- George Carlin

sickbody-sickmind:

I love everything about George Carlin.

(Source: hockey-teeth, via pre-serum)

TRIGGER WARNING: for mentions of sexual assault and street harassment.


feminine protection

oh honey honey I’m telling you — a woman’s work is never
done. why that guy who gave me the once-over twice
pumping his hands under his overcoat —
well, his eyes don’t open so well
since I sprayed him in the face with my
Miss Lady Aerosol Pump Superhold Formula Hairspray

and then that guy who felt me up on the subway, well —
blame it on my Lady Eve Press-on Manicure Nails in Sin Red
and something about that kind of fruit, why
that adam’s apple just fell right out
ripe and red into my hand

and that guy on the corner calling me everyday
with his hey baby baby doncha wanna baby baby
doncha wanna piece of me
and I said yeah baby baby yeah I wanna piece of you
and took off a one-inch slab of his tongue
with my Non-slip Grip Lady Schick

and oh those guys who tried to jump
me on the way home oh don’t you know
these things always end in tears
I was so sorry to lose my favorite pair of Foxy Lady
Five-inch Patent Leather Spike Heels — it’s going
to be a while before I get over that one

but a girl’s got to do what a girl’s got to do
and don’t even start me on what happened
the night that guy broke into my sanitary
pad it took me hours to clean off my Curling
Iron, my Nail File, my Tweezers, my Just-For-Me
Sandal Toe Queen Size Control Tops are still hanging out to dry

and what with all the screaming
I’m lucky I didn’t get caught red-
handed with my Pink Comfort-Tip
Scented Double-Barrel Super-Plus Sawed-
Off Tampax but Thank God for
feminine protection.

A girl never knows when she’s gonna need
to soak up some blood.

—Daphne Gottlieb

The Replacement
by Tony Hoagland


And across the country I know
they are replacing my brother’s brain
with the brain of a man:


one gesture, one word, one neuron at a time
with surgical precision
they are teaching him to hook his thumbs
into his belt, to iron his mouth as flat
as the horizon, and make his eyes
reflective as a piece of tin.


It is a kind of cooking
the male child undergoes:
to toughen him, he is dipped repeatedly
in insult—peckerwood, shitbag, faggot,
pussy, dicksucker—until spear points
will break against his epidermis,
until he is impossible to disappoint.


Then he walks out into the street
ready for a game of corporate poker
with a hard-on for the Dow-Jones
like this hormonal language I am
flexing like a bicep
to show who’s boss.


But I’m not the boss.
And there is nothing I can do to stop it,
and would I if I could?
What else is there to be
except a man?
If they fail,
he stumbles through his life
like an untied shoe.
If they succeed, he may become
something even I can’t love.


Already the photograph I have of him
is out of date
but in it he is standing by the pool
without a shirt: too young, too white, too weak,
with feelings he is too inept to hide
splashed all over his face—


goofy, proud, shy,
he’s smiling at the camera
as if he were under the illusion
that someone loved him so well
they would not ever ever ever
turn him over to the world.

I love this sfm.

Here we have a woman who works in the military, is very intelligent, and rose to a position of authority very quickly, and what do her male underlings thing of her?

They think she’s awesome of course!

Sexism: Good for selling beef jerky.

So let’s talk about sexism in advertising, specifically sexism against men.  Just to change things up a bit.

There’s this set of ads for Slim Jim that have been running on the Escapist’s website.  Every time I go to watch a Zero Punctuation video, one of these things pops up, and since I’ve been watching a lot of ZP lately, I’ve had many opportunities to watch these ads and get increasingly pissed off at them.

The premise of the ads is that there’s a medical condition called Spice Loss that strikes certain men, and there’s a team of doctors who are treating victims of the disease by administering Slim Jim.

What’s Spice Loss?  Well its hallmark symptoms include:

- ironing jeans

- trading in a red sports car for a grey minivan

- riding a moped as a passenger, behind a female driver, while wearing a helmet

- ordering just a salad for lunch

- doing tantric yoga

- riding a recumbent bike

- going to your ex-girlfriend’s engagement party to plead with her to take you back (this patient has one of the doctors yell at him to “get over it”)

It doesn’t take a genius to parse this.  “Spice Loss” is shorthand for a man engaging in behaviors that are considered unmanly.  In the world of these ads, a man acting feminine isn’t just uncool, it’s an actual disease that must be treated by doctors and nurses and EMTs.  Not only that, but the sufferers of said disease are often shamed by their doctors and treated like it’s their own fault.  How dare you not conform to arbitrary gender norms!  Now eat this stick of processed meat and get back into line, you drone!

I mean, can you imagine what the gender-flipped version of these ads would be like?  “I got so worried about Cynthia when I found out she was playing rugby and watching Star Trek!”  “Don’t worry, we’ll just take her to the hospital, feed her this magic personality-altering food, and she’ll be back to wearing pink and scrubbing pots in the kitchen in no time.”  Creepy as hell!  Even creepier when you recall that in the Victorian Era, women were given unnecessary medical procedures, put into mental institutions, even given clitoridectomies just because they weren’t acting feminine and docile enough.

This isn’t anything new — for a long time now, men in our society have been under a lot of pressure to conform very closely to masculine gender norms, and they risk being mocked, bullied, shunned, called a “fag”, etc, if they step so much as a smidgen out of line.  The various waves of feminism have made it mostly okay for a woman to do masculine things, but when a man does feminine things, it’s still treated as a heinous sin.  I mean, doing yoga?  Eating vegetarian?  Ironing jeans?  Displaying realistic emotions over a failed relationship?  Why is it so forbidden for men to do those things?  Why are these behaviors so terrible that we’re now portraying them as a dangerous disease, albeit in a comedic context?

At this point, some of you are probably saying “It’s just a stupid ad, what’s the big deal?”  Sure, it’s just a stupid ad, but even the stupidest of stupid ads are still a part of culture, and culture has a huge effect on how we interpret and think about the world.  Besides, as I said, this message isn’t just coming from Slim Jim — it’s a widespread social trend that you can see all over the place.  Hell, the other day my male coworker got all freaked out because he saw a male pedestrian wearing tight-fitting capri pants, and he went off on a toot about how terrible it is when guys wear girly clothing.  They’re just pants, dude!  This is a mostly free country, and if a guy wants to wear capris, or eat a salad, or drive a minivan, or be emotional, or iron his jeans, then he should be able to do that without having everyone dogpile on him.

WARNING: kinda NSFW

Guys, I can’t even tell you how much I love this pic.

Here we have a porny picture of the lead female character in an anime, but she’s not being raped by slimy tentacles or serving as a passive fuck-toy for some faceless guy.  Instead she’s having a perfectly nice time pleasuring herself at home, with no tentacles or disembodied penises necessary.  And it’s not even drawn in a gross exploitative way with the camera zooming in on anatomically incorrect gushing ladybits — instead, Panty’s privacy is left un-invaded and all we see is her facial expression, her enjoyment of her faptime.

(And lol @ Chuck being fucking weird as usual.)

By 63805

We’ve taken huge steps back in the past 10 years with the portrayal of women in film and television It’s why I’ve been disproportionately attracted to projects set in the past. The public are still loath to see shows with women in positions of power; female characters are expected to express more traditional, caring attitudes. We need to battle for the public’s hearts and minds and create an environment where they don’t think it’s threatening or negative to see a woman playing a drunk cop or a female surgeon.
– Romola Garai (via fuckyeahromolagarai)

(Source: romola-garai.com, via agent355)

Feminist texts written by women of color

mylifeasafeminista:

This list is still a work in progress, but I really wanted to get it posted.  I have either read parts of/all of the texts below or they have been recommended to me.  Please reblog and add your own suggestions to the list.  Each time someone adds something new, I’ll go back to this original post and make sure to include them.  Thanks and enjoy!

Books

  • Women, Race, and Class by Angela Davis
  • Women Culture and Politics by Angela Davis
  • Black Feminist Thought by Patricia Hill Collins
  • Borderlands/La frontera: The New Mestiza by Gloria Anzaldua
  • Aint I a Woman: Black Women and Feminism by bell hooks
  • Feminism is for Everybody by bell hooks
  • Feminist Theory from Margin to Center by bell hooks
  • Sister Outsider by Audre Lorde
  • Feminism without Borders: Decolonizing Theory, Practicing Solidarity by Chandra Talpade Mohanty
  • Medicine Stories by Aurora Levins Morales
  • Reimagining Equality: Stories of Gender, Race, and Finding Home by Anita Hill
  • Killing the Black Body: Race, Reproduction, and the Meaning of Liberty by Jessica Yee
  • Conquest: Sexual Violence and American Indian Genocide by Andrea Smith

Anthologies

  • Companeras: Latina Lesbians by Juanita Ramos and the Lesbian History Project
  • Colonize This! Young Women of Color on Today’s Feminism edited by Daisy Hernandez
  • This Bridge Called My Back edited by Cherríe Moraga and Gloria Anzaldúa
  • this bridge we call home: radical visions for transformation edited by Gloria Anzaldúa and AnaLouise Keating
  • Making Face, Making Soul/Haciendo Caras: Creative and Critical Perspectives by Feminists of Color edited by Gloria Anzaldúa
  • Women Writing Resistance: Essays from Latin America and the Caribbean edited by Jennifer Browdy de Hernandez
  • Unequal Sisters edited by Ellen DuBois and Vicki Ruiz
  • The Color of Violence: The Incite! Anthology

Essays

  • “Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence” by Adrienne Rich
  • “Mapping the Margins: Intersectionality, Identity Politics, and Violence Against Women of Color.” by Kimberle Crenshaw
  • The Combahee River Collective Statement

Other authors and poets you should know

  • Maya Angelou
  • Toni Morrison
  • Alice Walker
  • Nawaal El Sadaawi
  • Mary Crow Dog
  • Zora Neale Hurston
  • Arundhati Roy
  • Zadie Smith
  • Dorothy Roberts
  • Nikki Giovanni (submitted by my bff maskofmaterials)
  • Lucille Clifton (submitted by my bff maskofmaterials)

(via glamaphonic)

Finish the sentence: “There have been 16 feature films with Superman or Batman but zero Wonder Woman movies and the main reason is…

The LA Times Hero Complex reported tweeted this. The main reason is….? (via georgethecat)

Good fucking question.

(via ironmanned)

(via glamaphonic)

from “Why We Have A Body” by Claire Chafee

MARY: That reminds me why I called you up. Last night I had another in my series of Feminist Nightmares.

LILI: Like the one where you’re in a big circle and you have to come to an unanimous decision?

MARY: Right right… only in this dream we were fishing, Lili. The two of us. We were back in Minnesota. We had cut a hole in the ice and made a fire right there to stay warm. On the ice. And we were fishing.

All of a sudden you caught something big. It felt really big. You reeled it in. It was Virginia Woolf. And she was angry, Lili… She was furious. She told you to throw her back in and you said are you sure? and she said, “yes” so you did. And we just sat there and looked up at the stars… the monogamous stars… until I felt a tug, a tiny tug,

…it felt like I had caught something big. And so I reeled it in… And it was… you gotta believe me here, it was Ophelia. In the dream I caught Ophelia. And she was nicer about it but still, she said to throw her back, and I said, “are you sure?” and she just said: “good night… good night good night good night” and started singing. And so I threw her back. We could hear her singing as she sank back under. And we both thought, this is some motherfucking river here we picked.

It really creeped us out. So we turned to the fire to stay warm, but pretty soon we heard something pulling my pole across the ice, so I picked it up and reeled it in and out of the ice came this bright red blob. It was a heart, Lili. Joan of Arc’s… and it was frozen solid.

I held it in my hand until it got warm and started beating again. It got all red and then it spoke. It spoke to me and what it said was really simple.

It told us “fish somewhere else.”

To the girls who actually know comic book characters

roxanneritchi:

diktynna | fuckyeahthisperson:

[.gif of Snape applauding with the caption “Snape approves”; removed by @roxanneritchi for accessibility]

Yeah, but we all still think you’re a dick?  Because you’re that person who thinks that a woman in a superhero t-shirt is somehow a ‘slut’ (the most realistic leap of logic I’ve ever witnessed) until it’s proven that she can tell you that Superman’s real name is Clark Kent? (And don’t ‘aha! his real name is Kal-El!’ me because motherfucker I will win that argument.)  A woman could be wearing a superhero shirt for a variety of reasons unrelated to her knowledge of comic book mythos (it was a gift, she liked the movie, she doesn’t feel like doing laundry and her sister’s clothes fit her fine, she likes the logo, she wants to impress a cute person) but none of those reasons is reason enough for your misogynistic and hostile attitude.

And let’s step back, it’s great that you’re ~approving of girls who “actually know comic book characters”, but your attitude is one of the major reasons girls avoid comics.  It’s not fun being treated like you’re a poser until proven otherwise.  It’s not fun having to deal with people assuming you know less than them, or that you couldn’t possibly be earnestly invested in Jaime Reyes’ family life, or that you probably only read indie comics.  You make being a girl geek an unpleasant experience.

The other day I was in the comic book store and a customer approached the guy working behind the counter and asked “How do you get girls in here?”  In the store at the time was my best friend Sadie (who works there) her (lady) cousin, the dickwad asking the question, another store worker (who he was addressing) and myself.  That shit is not fun.  Having your every geek encounter questioned because of your gender identity is not fun.  He found the only other man in the room and made three women feel unimportant and like some kind of comic book store unicorn.  In his mind there was no reason why women should be in the store if not for the kindly guidance of a dude.  

That’s what you’re doing.  When you assume that women who are wearing comic book shirts are only doing so for male attention you’re repulsing actual lady geeks who you supposedly ‘approve of.’  So sit the fuck down.

The last thing I would ever want is this dude’s approval. 

(via formerlyroxy)

Feminism, Cis Women & Fuck Yourself

autumn-and-eve:

Most every feminist on Tumblr is a white cis woman, so they have never experienced erasure within the feminist community, because feminism has always been about white cis women. Right now, I am going to address the erasure I face as a trans woman in the feminist community in the form of a list of points you should follow to not be a shitty person.

  1. Abortion is not about a woman’s right to choose. It is about a person’s right to choose. Recently, with the “Let Women Die” bill (thank you cis feminists for branding it as that!) there has been even more talk of abortion. And a proportionate rise in the amount of cisnormativity. Trans men and non-binary identified people get pregnant, can’t get abortions, and die just like women do. When you perpetuate cisnormative language, you continue to erase these people.
  2. Equating a woman with a vagina is not good for a multitude of reasons; I’m speaking of posts where the writer will talk about “vagina power” or shit like that. It’s pointless and all you’re doing is further alienating me from the feminist movement, which coincidentally has alienated us trans women since the [non]-issue of being transgender came up in feminist circles.
  3. Realize intersectionality in general. 90% of Tumblr feminists are really privileged women (and I would say that they are practically all white and cis). You call yourself a third-wave feminist, but do you know what that even means? The third-wave came about when people started to realize that the “Universal Female Identity” complex of the second wave didn’t work, because that “Universal Female Identity” was really the “White, Cis Female Identity”. You can’t just call yourself a third-wave feminist and be done with it, you have to actually show that you are of the third-wave.

(via glamaphonic)

Mississippi Personhood- Amendment 26

thesassysociologist:

I live in Mississippi. Mississippi has a personhood amendment up for vote in the next election. What scares me is that I think Mississippi might actually be backwards enough to vote yes on this amendment.

Mississippi is already one of the hardest states in which to obtain an abortion, the amendment would not only end abortion but lead to a prohibition of emergency contraception in rape and incest cases, limit medical treatment for miscarriages, tubal pregnancies and infertility treatments, as well as essentially make all forms of birth control illegal (I got pregnant with my first daughter when I was on the pill, if I had miscarried instead of carrying her to term, I could be found at fault for being on birth control pills and “causing” the miscarriage, even though I did not even know I was pregnant at the time).

There is already a teenage mom in prison in Mississippi because she was found guilty of “killing” her unborn child because she allegedly used cocaine while pregnant. What proof beyond a reasonable doubt is there that cocaine use was the cause of death in the unborn child? What did the autopsy report? It was inconclusive, yet there she sits 15 years old and instead of treating her for addiction and giving her the proper education, medical, and psychological care, she sits in a cell.

If this amendment passes, the next person in jail could be the woman who was known not to want children, yet who got pregnant and a few months into the pregnancy fainted and accidentally fell down a flight of stairs resulting in the death of the fetus. Now she goes on trial for murder because she can not prove she did not do it on purpose because she had told people in the past that she never wanted kids, and it just seems like “too much of a coincidence” that she fell down the stairs and lost the pregnancy.

What about the pregnant woman with a fetus that has birth defects that will ultimately lead to the death either in utero or shortly after birth will also have to carry her child to term only to watch it die before her own eyes. The emotional burden and psychological trauma that would be intentionally inflicted  on the woman who would have chosen not to carry the child to term, had she had the choice is too much to even think about.

Is this really the world we want our kids to grow up in, what happens when it is our daughter, sister, or wife who is raped? What happens to the 12 year old who gets pregnant by her sexual abuser? The reluctant mother to be who accidentally falls down the stairs? The excited mom to be who finds out she has a malformed fetus but has to endure a full term pregnancy knowing she will not give birth to a living child.

What about the women who face infection, death, or other health issues if a pregnancy is carried to term? And what becomes of the child born into poverty, abuse, malnutrition, violence, and has little to no access to medical care?

 We have to keep fighting to defend our right to make personal, private medical decisions without interference from politicians and the courts, to prevent one religious viewpoints from becoming the laws of the land and to ensure that women can access basic health care, including birth control, fertility services,  emergency contraception, and abortion.

No matter what your personal view on abortion is, this bill limits the rights of people and pushes a religious agenda onto others who may not hold the same beliefs. Think of it in these terms, how would you feel about a religion who felt that hair was alive, and that cutting hair was a sin and immoral. These people propose an amendment that declares hair a person and states that all forms of hair removal be outlawed?

Even shaving hair for the purpose of hygiene before a required medical procedure is not allowed under any circumstances which makes the risk of infection from the medical procedure go up by a significant percent, but the life and health of the person requiring the procedure is not as important as making sure the hair is not harmed.

Seem absurd? It is essentially the same law as personhood, it is declaring hair  alive and therefore you must not get rid of it or keep it from growing. You have to deal with it until it falls out on its own even though you don’t believe removing hair is immoral.  The only major difference is that when hair falls out, it does not require food, clothing, education, medical care, financial support, etc.

Mississippi 'Personhood' Law Could Ban Abortions And Birth Control

thisgingersnapsback:

Abortion-rights advocates say they worry that the language of the initiative is so broad and vague that its effects could go far beyond outlawing abortion. The measure could be interpreted to outlaw the birth control pill, for instance, because the pill can sometimes prevent the implantation of a fertilized egg. They also say the measure could outlaw in vitro fertilization, stem cell research and emergency contraception for rape victims, as well as discourage doctors from performing a lifesaving miscarriage treatment when a woman is suffering from potentially-fatal pregnancy complications.

I just need to stop reading the news today.

pheonee:


“Boy, these conservatives are really something, aren’t they? They’re all in favour of the unborn. They will do anything for the unborn. But once you’re born, you’re on your own. Pro-life conservatives are obsessed with the fetus from conception to nine months. After that, they don’t want to know anything about you. No nothing. No neonatal care, no day care, no head start, no school lunch, no food stamps, no welfare, no nothing. If you’re preborn, you’re fine; if you’re preschool, you’re fucked. Conservatives don’t give a shit about you until you reach “military age”. Then they think you are just fine. Just what they’ve been looking for. Conservatives want live babies so they can raise them to be dead soldiers. Pro-life…pro-life…these people aren’t pro-life, they’re killing doctors! What kind of pro-life is that? What, they’ll do anything to save a fetus but if it grows up to be a doctor they just might have to kill it? They’re not pro-life. You know what they are? They’re anti-woman. Simple as it gets, anti-woman. They don’t like them. They don’t like women. They believe a woman’s primary role is to function as a broodmare for the state.”
- George Carlin

sickbody-sickmind:

I love everything about George Carlin.

pheonee:

“Boy, these conservatives are really something, aren’t they? They’re all in favour of the unborn. They will do anything for the unborn. But once you’re born, you’re on your own. Pro-life conservatives are obsessed with the fetus from conception to nine months. After that, they don’t want to know anything about you. No nothing. No neonatal care, no day care, no head start, no school lunch, no food stamps, no welfare, no nothing. If you’re preborn, you’re fine; if you’re preschool, you’re fucked. Conservatives don’t give a shit about you until you reach “military age”. Then they think you are just fine. Just what they’ve been looking for. Conservatives want live babies so they can raise them to be dead soldiers. Pro-life…pro-life…these people aren’t pro-life, they’re killing doctors! What kind of pro-life is that? What, they’ll do anything to save a fetus but if it grows up to be a doctor they just might have to kill it? They’re not pro-life. You know what they are? They’re anti-woman. Simple as it gets, anti-woman. They don’t like them. They don’t like women. They believe a woman’s primary role is to function as a broodmare for the state.”

- George Carlin

sickbody-sickmind:

I love everything about George Carlin.

(Source: hockey-teeth, via pre-serum)

TRIGGER WARNING: for mentions of sexual assault and street harassment.


feminine protection

oh honey honey I’m telling you — a woman’s work is never
done. why that guy who gave me the once-over twice
pumping his hands under his overcoat —
well, his eyes don’t open so well
since I sprayed him in the face with my
Miss Lady Aerosol Pump Superhold Formula Hairspray

and then that guy who felt me up on the subway, well —
blame it on my Lady Eve Press-on Manicure Nails in Sin Red
and something about that kind of fruit, why
that adam’s apple just fell right out
ripe and red into my hand

and that guy on the corner calling me everyday
with his hey baby baby doncha wanna baby baby
doncha wanna piece of me
and I said yeah baby baby yeah I wanna piece of you
and took off a one-inch slab of his tongue
with my Non-slip Grip Lady Schick

and oh those guys who tried to jump
me on the way home oh don’t you know
these things always end in tears
I was so sorry to lose my favorite pair of Foxy Lady
Five-inch Patent Leather Spike Heels — it’s going
to be a while before I get over that one

but a girl’s got to do what a girl’s got to do
and don’t even start me on what happened
the night that guy broke into my sanitary
pad it took me hours to clean off my Curling
Iron, my Nail File, my Tweezers, my Just-For-Me
Sandal Toe Queen Size Control Tops are still hanging out to dry

and what with all the screaming
I’m lucky I didn’t get caught red-
handed with my Pink Comfort-Tip
Scented Double-Barrel Super-Plus Sawed-
Off Tampax but Thank God for
feminine protection.

A girl never knows when she’s gonna need
to soak up some blood.

—Daphne Gottlieb

The Replacement
by Tony Hoagland


And across the country I know
they are replacing my brother’s brain
with the brain of a man:


one gesture, one word, one neuron at a time
with surgical precision
they are teaching him to hook his thumbs
into his belt, to iron his mouth as flat
as the horizon, and make his eyes
reflective as a piece of tin.


It is a kind of cooking
the male child undergoes:
to toughen him, he is dipped repeatedly
in insult—peckerwood, shitbag, faggot,
pussy, dicksucker—until spear points
will break against his epidermis,
until he is impossible to disappoint.


Then he walks out into the street
ready for a game of corporate poker
with a hard-on for the Dow-Jones
like this hormonal language I am
flexing like a bicep
to show who’s boss.


But I’m not the boss.
And there is nothing I can do to stop it,
and would I if I could?
What else is there to be
except a man?
If they fail,
he stumbles through his life
like an untied shoe.
If they succeed, he may become
something even I can’t love.


Already the photograph I have of him
is out of date
but in it he is standing by the pool
without a shirt: too young, too white, too weak,
with feelings he is too inept to hide
splashed all over his face—


goofy, proud, shy,
he’s smiling at the camera
as if he were under the illusion
that someone loved him so well
they would not ever ever ever
turn him over to the world.

I love this sfm.
Here we have a woman who works in the military, is very intelligent, and rose to a position of authority very quickly, and what do her male underlings thing of her?
They think she’s awesome of course!

I love this sfm.

Here we have a woman who works in the military, is very intelligent, and rose to a position of authority very quickly, and what do her male underlings thing of her?

They think she’s awesome of course!

Sexism: Good for selling beef jerky.

So let’s talk about sexism in advertising, specifically sexism against men.  Just to change things up a bit.

There’s this set of ads for Slim Jim that have been running on the Escapist’s website.  Every time I go to watch a Zero Punctuation video, one of these things pops up, and since I’ve been watching a lot of ZP lately, I’ve had many opportunities to watch these ads and get increasingly pissed off at them.

The premise of the ads is that there’s a medical condition called Spice Loss that strikes certain men, and there’s a team of doctors who are treating victims of the disease by administering Slim Jim.

What’s Spice Loss?  Well its hallmark symptoms include:

- ironing jeans

- trading in a red sports car for a grey minivan

- riding a moped as a passenger, behind a female driver, while wearing a helmet

- ordering just a salad for lunch

- doing tantric yoga

- riding a recumbent bike

- going to your ex-girlfriend’s engagement party to plead with her to take you back (this patient has one of the doctors yell at him to “get over it”)

It doesn’t take a genius to parse this.  “Spice Loss” is shorthand for a man engaging in behaviors that are considered unmanly.  In the world of these ads, a man acting feminine isn’t just uncool, it’s an actual disease that must be treated by doctors and nurses and EMTs.  Not only that, but the sufferers of said disease are often shamed by their doctors and treated like it’s their own fault.  How dare you not conform to arbitrary gender norms!  Now eat this stick of processed meat and get back into line, you drone!

I mean, can you imagine what the gender-flipped version of these ads would be like?  “I got so worried about Cynthia when I found out she was playing rugby and watching Star Trek!”  “Don’t worry, we’ll just take her to the hospital, feed her this magic personality-altering food, and she’ll be back to wearing pink and scrubbing pots in the kitchen in no time.”  Creepy as hell!  Even creepier when you recall that in the Victorian Era, women were given unnecessary medical procedures, put into mental institutions, even given clitoridectomies just because they weren’t acting feminine and docile enough.

This isn’t anything new — for a long time now, men in our society have been under a lot of pressure to conform very closely to masculine gender norms, and they risk being mocked, bullied, shunned, called a “fag”, etc, if they step so much as a smidgen out of line.  The various waves of feminism have made it mostly okay for a woman to do masculine things, but when a man does feminine things, it’s still treated as a heinous sin.  I mean, doing yoga?  Eating vegetarian?  Ironing jeans?  Displaying realistic emotions over a failed relationship?  Why is it so forbidden for men to do those things?  Why are these behaviors so terrible that we’re now portraying them as a dangerous disease, albeit in a comedic context?

At this point, some of you are probably saying “It’s just a stupid ad, what’s the big deal?”  Sure, it’s just a stupid ad, but even the stupidest of stupid ads are still a part of culture, and culture has a huge effect on how we interpret and think about the world.  Besides, as I said, this message isn’t just coming from Slim Jim — it’s a widespread social trend that you can see all over the place.  Hell, the other day my male coworker got all freaked out because he saw a male pedestrian wearing tight-fitting capri pants, and he went off on a toot about how terrible it is when guys wear girly clothing.  They’re just pants, dude!  This is a mostly free country, and if a guy wants to wear capris, or eat a salad, or drive a minivan, or be emotional, or iron his jeans, then he should be able to do that without having everyone dogpile on him.

WARNING: kinda NSFW
Guys, I can’t even tell you how much I love this pic.
Here we have a porny picture of the lead female character in an anime, but she’s not being raped by slimy tentacles or serving as a passive fuck-toy for some faceless guy.  Instead she’s having a perfectly nice time pleasuring herself at home, with no tentacles or disembodied penises necessary.  And it’s not even drawn in a gross exploitative way with the camera zooming in on anatomically incorrect gushing ladybits — instead, Panty’s privacy is left un-invaded and all we see is her facial expression, her enjoyment of her faptime.
(And lol @ Chuck being fucking weird as usual.)
By 63805

WARNING: kinda NSFW

Guys, I can’t even tell you how much I love this pic.

Here we have a porny picture of the lead female character in an anime, but she’s not being raped by slimy tentacles or serving as a passive fuck-toy for some faceless guy.  Instead she’s having a perfectly nice time pleasuring herself at home, with no tentacles or disembodied penises necessary.  And it’s not even drawn in a gross exploitative way with the camera zooming in on anatomically incorrect gushing ladybits — instead, Panty’s privacy is left un-invaded and all we see is her facial expression, her enjoyment of her faptime.

(And lol @ Chuck being fucking weird as usual.)

By 63805

We’ve taken huge steps back in the past 10 years with the portrayal of women in film and television It’s why I’ve been disproportionately attracted to projects set in the past. The public are still loath to see shows with women in positions of power; female characters are expected to express more traditional, caring attitudes. We need to battle for the public’s hearts and minds and create an environment where they don’t think it’s threatening or negative to see a woman playing a drunk cop or a female surgeon.
– Romola Garai (via fuckyeahromolagarai)

(Source: romola-garai.com, via agent355)

Feminist texts written by women of color
"Finish the sentence: “There have been 16 feature films with Superman or Batman but zero Wonder Woman movies and the main reason is…"
from “Why We Have A Body” by Claire Chafee
To the girls who actually know comic book characters
Feminism, Cis Women & Fuck Yourself
Mississippi Personhood- Amendment 26
Some choice replies to the “Bawww imaginary gay men are flirting with me in a video game” post
Sexism: Good for selling beef jerky.
"We’ve taken huge steps back in the past 10 years with the portrayal of women in film and television It’s why I’ve been disproportionately attracted to projects set in the past. The public are still loath to see shows with women in positions of power; female characters are expected to express more traditional, caring attitudes. We need to battle for the public’s hearts and minds and create an environment where they don’t think it’s threatening or negative to see a woman playing a drunk cop or a female surgeon."

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Female, bi, cis, white, USAmerican, college student, animu/mango fangirl. Posts an odd mixture of social justice srs bizness, incoherent fandom squee, and Zero Punctuation screencaps. See also: the_sun_is_up@LJ.

Also runs fuckyeahfemslash. *self-pimp self-pimp*

Fanart credits: If an artist's name is all numbers (e.g. 186384) then that artist is on Pixiv. If an artist's name is letters and/or numbers (e.g. Gabzillaz, Nami86) then that artist is on DeviantArt.

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girls who top = femdom
lesbians! = femslash, yuri, etc
homo homo ghei ghei = slash, yaoi, boysex, etc
bizarre love triangle = OT3, threesomes, etc
PRAISE GAGA = Lady Gaga
BeaBato = Beatrice/Battler
Twilol = funny Twilight things